Sunday, November 18, 2012

Battling against Autism:


I have been sort of trying to figure out a solution to support the children with autism but personally I don’t like terms autistic or words like disability. Why? To me every child with challenges is unique. It is us, who cannot accept this. My seven year old son is an Aspe and it was very difficult for me accept it but realized the sooner you accept the better is for your child.

The first time when I first had my son accessed and found that he has Asperger I had no clue what I was supposed to do. The doctor told me that in Bangladesh there is no such institution that has expertise to access cases like him.

Last few years I have talking to people at home and abroad trying to find a solution to my son’s problem. I have been talking to experts at home and overseas all these times.

I came across Ms. M A Hook, she is into Adaptive Coaching in Los Angles and she told me ‘let him be a child first, scholar later. And not to push him beyond his abilities.’  But the question remains it is easier said than done, I have been waging war against the education system of the country for last few years. I have come across children with difficult cases of autism, there are quite a few organizations working with autism in Bangladesh and these organizations are comfortable to work with extreme cases but when it comes to cases like my son it is very uncomfortable because these children cannot be addressed. They cannot go to special schools because it will deteriorate their condition and the regular schools do not want to address these children and numbers of these children are increasing at an alarming stage.

We forget that each child matures at different rates. The fastest way to put a child into poor eyesight is to push them into reading and writing too early. Their young bodies are simply not ready for it. The late-maturing children are often the most stable and reliable later in life. Those who have been pushed often become nervous wrecks.

I think it is high time that we try to understand these cases and create an environment for these children where they will have the space to grow. The reality is Thomas Edison tried 3,000 things before he found something that worked as a filament to the light bulb. Were those 3,000 tries failures? He didn't think so. He said, "No, I just found 3,000 things that didn't work, that's all."

Wednesday, October 31, 2012

Awami League, the lone rider


Khaleda Zia's recent visit to China and India has made Sheikh Hasina very uneasy. After almost 4 years the ruling party Awami League's achievement is humongous 97% parliament members being involved in negative activities. 

Sheikh Hasina's instant remark to the above was 'ill-motivated with the goal of tarnishing the government’s reputation'. Now, 97% members involved in negative activities I might also agree with the term ill-motivated but then again what would the percentage she would agree upon to say that it is correct.

One of the key issues that have put the present government in a very delicate situation is the Padma Bridge corruption. When the issue was raised by the World Bank, the Government outright denied the allegation. The World Bank has always said that they have credible evidence corroborated by a variety of sources which points to a high-level corruption conspiracy among Bangladeshi government officials and private individuals in connection with the project, and all evidences had been sent to the Bangladeshi Prime Minister. In this regard Prime Minister's stance has highly been suspicious instead of appreciating the report she decided to go against the World Bank. But eventually she lost the battle and now she is in brink of losing the war. The question rises why the Prime Minister was so ready to go against trying to save one of the proven corrupted Ministers. 

Prior to the Padma Bridge issue the other issue which took the present government in a vulnerable stage was the share market which seems to be one of Awami Leagues election agenda that whenever we come to power we'll manipulate the market because we are good at it.

As the election gets closer Awami League is losing friends for their attitudes towards friends and neighbors at home and abroad. And Awami League has become desperate in waging war against friends trying to divert or deceive which of course they are good at.

Sunday, November 1, 2009

Desert Rose - Sting

Year 2012


















Year 2012 the sun will be aligned with the centre of the milky way galaxy, for the first time in 26,000 years. The vast majority believes that world is going to experience a cataclysmic or transformative events will occur in the year 2012. The prediction is based primarily on that claim to be the end date of the Mayan calender.

Does actually Mayan calendar ends in 2012, no it is the beginning of new era. It is like an odometer, as each section of the odometer reaches 9 and then clicks over to 0, the next number to it starts a new cycle, so when all the numbers again reach 0 all the way across odometer - the last number will change from 1 to 2 and the new cycle starts all over again.

But will the world come to an end, well, there are several reasons to be taken under consideration:


1. Mayan Calendar
The first to predict 2012 as the end of the world were Mayans, a bloodthirsty race that were good at two things - building highly accurate astrological equipment out of stone and sacrificing virgins.

Thousands of years ago they managed to calculate the length of lunar moon as 329.503020 days, only 34 seconds out. The Mayan calendar predicts that the earth will end on December 21, 2012.

2. Sun storms
Solar experts around the world made a startling discovery, our sun is in bit of strife. The energy output of the sun is, like the most things in nature, cyclic and it's supposed to be in the middle of a period of relative stability. However, recent solar storms been bombarding the earth with lot of radiation energy. It's been knocking out power grids and destroying satellites.

3. The atom smasher
Scientists in Europe have been building the world's largest particle accelerator. Basically, its a 27 km tunnel design to smash atom together to find out what makes the universe tick. However, the mega gadget has caused serious concern, with some scientists suggesting that it was a bad idea to turn it on in the first place. They are predicting all manner of deadly results, including mini black holes. So when this machine is fired up for its first serious experiment in 2012 the world could be in serious trouble.

4. Super volcano
Yellowstone national Park in US is famous for its thermal springs and old faithful geyser. The reason for this is simple - it is sitting on top of the world's biggest volcano and geological experts are beginning to get nervous. The Yellowstone volcano has a pattern of erupting every 650,000 years and we're many years overdue for an explosion that will fill up the atmosphere with ash, blocking the sun and plunging the earth into a frozen winter that could last up to 15,000 years.

5. Earth's magnetic field
We all know that the earth is surrounded by a magnetic field that shields us from most of the sun's tradition. The magnetic poles we call North and South have a nasty habit of swapping places every 750,000 years or so - and right now we're about 30,000 years overdue. The scientists have noted that the poles are drifting apart roughly 20-30 kms each year, much faster than ever before, which points to a pole shift being right around the corner. While the pole shift is under way, the magnetic field is disrupted and will eventually disappear.

Will it be the end or a new beginning. Well, will have to wait and see.



Friday, October 30, 2009

Muslim and Islam

In the name of Allah, the Beneficent, the Merciful

God has stated for us the many attributes of the Qur’an. The fundamental incentive behind this is to base our own judgment in this book on a solid foundation, assure our hearts about its qualities, and provide answers for those who challenge its laws and divinity. God describes His book as the only source of law for those who have attained certainty. On the other hand, Qur’an appears to be the most read and the least understood book in the world.

How can we know if we might qualify to be called a Muslim (Submitter)? The minimum criteria to be a Muslim are given in the following verses.

Surely, those who believe,
those who are Jewish, the Christians,
and the converts; anyone who
(1) believes in GOD, and
(2) believes in the Last Day, and
(3) leads a righteous life,
will receive their recompense from their Lord.
They have nothing to fear, nor will they grieve. (2:62, 5:69)

A Submitter can be defined as a person who submits to the will of God. The state of Submission, which can only take the place between the person and God Almighty, is considered to be the only acceptable form of worship by God. Therefore, Submission is not just a name of a religion; rather it carefully tells one's devotion to God alone. Submission is a religion whereby one recognizes God's absolute authority, and reaches a fundamental principle that God alone possesses all power; no other entity possesses any power that is independent of Him. The natural result of such a realization is to devote one's life and one's worship absolutely to God alone. This is the First Commandment in all the scriptures, including the Old Testament, the New Testament and the Final Testament (The Qur’an).

I was born into a Muslim family; I used the bland representation "born into," because being a true Muslim (Submitter) means that one needs to, have faith in the ' Shahaadah', "La Elaha Ella Allah", the Last Day and lead a righteous life as mentioned in Sura 2 Verse 62 and Sura 5 Verse 69.

And the Arabic word Islam translates in English language as Submission. The religion of Submission, whose religious laws are detailed in the Qur’an, dictates upon each human (and jinn) to worship Allah alone (52:56). The basic law is also known as the first commandment or the greatest commandment in the Old and New Testament. The word submission is not the name of religion, but rather it is a description. Submission is the total submission and devotion to ALLAH ALONE. Thus, anyone who can bring himself or herself to believe in Allah within the confines of the first commandment is a Submitter (in Arabic: Muslim).

The Qur’an proclaims in verse 3:19

"The only religion approved by Allah is Submission."

Deuteronomy 6:4-5

Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength.

Mark 12:29

"And Jesus answered him, The first of all the commandments is, Hear, O Israel; The Lord our God is one Lord:"

Mark 12:30

"And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength: this is the first commandment."

Exodus 20: 3

Thou shalt have no other gods before me.

Malachi 2: 10

Hath not one God created us?

Mark 12: 32, 34

And the scribe said unto him, Well, Master, thou hast said the truth: for there is one God; and there is none other but he Jesus saw that he answered discreetly.

John 17: 3

1 Corinthians 8: 4

And this is life eternal that they might know thee, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom you have sent. [There is] none other God but one.

1 Corinthians 8:

But to us [there is but] one God.

Ephesians 4: 6

One God and Father of all.

1 Timothy 2: 5

For [there is] one God.

James 2: 19

Thou believest that there is one God; thou doest well: the devils also believe, and tremble.

Careful study of all scriptures will reveal that they have the same first commandment - you shall not worship except God.

Gayatri Mantra, Yajur Vedal

We meditate on the glory of the Creator; Who has created the Universe ; Who is worthy of Worship ; Who is the embodiment of Knowledge and Light ; Who is the remover of all Sin and Ignorance ; May He enlighten our Intellect.

Allah points out in verse 3:18 of the Qur’an the Shahaadah of Allah, the angels and those who possess knowledge - la ellaha ella Allah (there is no god except God)

"GOD bears witness that there is no god except He, and so do the angels and those who possess knowledge. Truthfully and equitably, He is the absolute god; there is no god but He, the Almighty, Most Wise."

Minimum Requirement for Salvation

Verse 2:62 & 5:69 quoted below give the minimum requirement for salvation to Allah's Kingdom - anyone who believes in Allah Alone, believes in the Hereafter and leads a righteous life is destined for Heaven.

"Surely, those who believe, those who are Jewish, the Christians, and the converts; anyone who (1) believes in GOD, and (2) believes in the Last Day, and (3) leads a righteous life, will receive their recompense from their Lord. They have nothing to fear, nor will they grieve."

All religions of the world - Judaism, Christianity, Islam, Hinduism, Buddhism, and others - have been relentlessly tarnished through innovations, traditions, and the idolization of humans such as the prophets and the saints.

What is Shirk (Idolatry )?

We learn from the Qur’an, that idolatry is the only unforgivable sin if maintained till death.

"[4:48] "GOD does not forgive idolatry, * but He forgives lesser offenses for whomever He wills. Anyone who sets up idols beside GOD, has forged a horrendous offense."

*4:48 Idol worship is not forgivable, if maintained until death. One can always repent from any offense, including idolatry, before death comes (see 4:18 & 40:66).

[4:18] Not acceptable is the repentance of those who commit sins until death comes to them, then say, "Now I repent." Nor is it acceptable from those who die as disbelievers. For these, we have prepared a painful retribution.

[40:66] Say, "I have been enjoined from worshiping the idols you worship beside GOD, when the clear revelations came to me from my Lord. I was commanded to submit to the Lord of the universe."

[31:25] If you ask them, "Who created the heavens and the earth," they will say, "GOD." Say, "Praise be to God." Yet, most of them do not know.

Statement: Most people, though they agree that God created everything, still have doubts. That is why they disregard God's commands. This constitutes idolatry.

[12:106] The majority of those who believe in God do not do so without committing idol worship.

Statement: As the verse says, the majority will disregard and disobey God, even though they believe in Him, OR uphold teachings not approved by God. This constitutes idolatry.

[41:5-6] They said, "Our minds are made up, our ears are deaf to your message, and a barrier separates us from you. Do what you want, and so will we." Say, "I am no more than a human being like you, who has been inspired that your god is one god. You shall be devoted to Him, and ask His forgiveness. Woe to the idol worshippers."

Statement: This reflects an individual (s) ego problem by disregarding God's message, thereby constituting idolatry.

Let us see and examine what is idolatry and look at various definitions of idolatry given in the Qur’an.

Statues as an idol

[6:74] Recall that Abraham said to his father Ãzer, "How could you worship statues as GODS? I see that you and your people have gone far astray."

[2:51] Yet, when we summoned Moses for forty nights, you worshiped the calf in his absence, and turned wicked.*

*2:51 This incident reflect the humans' idolatrous tendency. Despite the profound miracles, Moses' followers worshiped the calf in his absence, and Moses ended up with only two believers

(5:23) As pointed out in the Introduction, the humans are rebels whose egos are their gods.

[21:51] Before that, we granted Abraham his guidance and understanding, for we were fully aware of him.

[21:52] He said to his father and his people, "What are these statues to which you are devoting yourselves?"

[21:53] They said, "We found our parents worshiping them."

Worshipping other gods

[4:117] They even worship female gods besides Him; as a matter of fact, they only worship a rebellious devil.

[18:15] "Here are our people setting up GODS beside Him. If only they could provide any proof to support their stand! Who is more evil than the one who fabricates lies and attributes them to GOD?
Jesus as idols

[5:72] Pagans indeed are those who say that GOD is the Messiah, son of Mary. The Messiah himself said, "O Children of Israel, you shall worship GOD; my Lord* and your Lord ." Anyone who sets up any idol beside GOD, GOD has forbidden Paradise for him, and his destiny is Hell. The wicked have no helpers.

In John 20:17, we see that Jesus taught that he was neither God, nor the son of God. Many theologians have concluded, after careful research, that today's Christianity is not the same Christianity taught by Jesus. Two outstanding books on this subject are “The Myth of God Incarnate'' (The Westminster Press, Philadelphia, 1977) and The “ Mythmaker'' (Harper & Row, New York, 1986). On the front jacket of “The Mythmaker'' we read the following statement: "... Hyam Maccoby formally gives new arguments to support the recent study that Paul, not Jesus, was the founder of Christianity.... it was Paul alone who created a new religion through his vision of Jesus as a divine Savior who died to save humanity."

Jinn's as idols

[72:6] " `Human beings used to seek power through jinn beings, but they only afflicted them with a lot of adversity.

[6:100] Yet, they set up beside GOD idols from among the jinns, though He is the One who created them. They even attribute to Him sons and daughters, without any knowledge. Be He glorified. He is the Most High, far above their claims.

Children as idols

[7:190] But when He gives them a good baby, they turn His gift into an idol that rivals Him. GOD be exalted, far above any partnership.

Humans as idols

[7:194] The idols you invoke besides GOD are creatures like you. Go ahead and call upon them; let them respond to you, if you are right.

Intercessors as idols

[10:18] They worship beside GOD idols that possess no power to harm them or benefit them, and they say, "These are our intercessors at GOD!" Say, "Are you informing GOD of something He does not know in the heavens or the earth?" Be He glorified. He is the Most High; far above needing partners.

From the Qur’an, it is obvious - there is no intercession by anyone on the Day of Judgment.

Satan as idol

[14:22] And the devil will say, after the judgment had been issued, "GOD has promised you the truthful promise, and I promised you, but I broke my promise. I had no power over you; I simply invited you, and you accepted my invitation. Therefore, do not blame me, and blame only yourselves. My complaining cannot help you, nor can your complaining help me. I have disbelieved in your idolizing me. The transgressors have incurred a painful retribution."


Property as idols

[18:42] Indeed, his crops were wiped out, and he ended up sorrowful, lamenting what he had spent on it in vain, as his property lay barren. He finally said, "I wish I never set up my property as a god beside my Lord."

Prophets and messengers as idols

[3:79] Never would a human being whom GOD blessed with the scripture and prophethood say to the people, "Idolize me beside GOD." Instead, (he would say), "Devote yourselves absolutely to your Lord alone," according to the scripture you preach and the teachings you learn.

God's servants as idols

[18:102] "Do those who disbelieve think that they can get away with setting up My servants as gods beside Me? We have prepared for the disbelievers Hell as an eternal abode.

Ego as idols

[25:43] Have you seen the one whose god is his own ego? Will you be his advocate?

Most humans, because of their ego cannot bring themselves to worship Allah, nor can they make opinion subordinate to Allah's opinion spelled out in the Qur’an because of their ego.

Following a source other than Qur’an is idolatry. The following verse makes it clear that the Qur’an is Allah's Testimony. Following any other source is defined as idolatry

Qur’an, the Whole Qur’an, and Nothing But the Qur’an

[6:19] Say, "Whose testimony is the greatest?" Say, "GOD's. He is the witness between me and you that this Qur’an* has been inspired to me, to preach it to you and whomever it reaches. Indeed, you bear witness that there are other gods* beside GOD." Say, "I do not testify as you do; there is only one god, and I disown your idolatry."

Worshipping Allah is to obey His words only (Qur’an) and not the words of humans.

Allah is Merciful

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

Saving Daylight

The people of Bangladesh must be adaptable to anything or the government is to egocentric. The Government of Bangladesh one fine morning decided that the change in time would save them from the huge power shortage. So, what can be done? We have to use the daylight. And it was decided that during summertime we'll maximize the use of daylight and then sometime in October will go back to the old system.

We said alright, the government might have good reason behind this decision unfortunately the whole project flipped back. We remained in the dark as usual without power. And we are still remaining in the dark as getting up in dark and going to work and coming back home in dark from work.

What the government has to say? The program was huge success. which still remains in the dark?

Feroz Kabir Khan

In 2007 conferred with the Honorary Degree of Doctor of Humane Letters from the Wesley Synod and St. Thomas-a-Becket University, Canterbury, England. Wesley Synod a full Original Methodist and Historical Apostolic Synod, dating back to the 1800s and the C.M.E. Churches of America.

A development practitioner by profession. From 1989 has been working in various field human developments.

Worked as a Chief Executive in Bangladesh for David Livingstone Missionary Foundation Inc. Tulsa, Oklahoma, USA and was the first Muslim and youngest ever to hold the position in the organization .

This honorary degree conferred is an Extra Ordinary Honor as being the first Muslim and first Bangladeshi in the history of the church ever to receive this honor.

His Highness the Aga Khan Imam (spiritual leader) of the Ismaili Muslims, Corazon Aquino, President of Philippines from 1986 to 1992, His Holiness the Dalai Lama, Prof. Muhammad Yunus, Chairman, Grameen Bank, Mr. Fazle Hasan Abed, Chairman, BRAC are among those who are conferred the Honorary Degree of Doctor of Humane Letters from Asia.